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Men Still Spend Twice As Much As Women On Valentine’s Day

Of the nearly $16 billion retailers expect Americans to spend on Valentine’s Day, men will spend twice as much of it as women. Are we surprised? Well, yes and no.

Men have traditionally spent more money on Valentine’s Day than women have, according to a study by the National Retail Foundation. But even this year, when most people feel comfortable spending a little more money on Valentine’s Day than they have in recent years, men are still spending the lion’s share. On average, guys will shell out $158.71 on their significant others, while women will spend around $75.79.

But you couldn’t explain this trend away by saying women understand that “it’s the thought that counts” better than men do. The fact that women don’t plan to spend as much as men on Valentine’s Day is a signal that women don’t have as much to spend as men. In a truly equal relationship, you’d think most couples would spend the same amount of money on each other. And it’s saddening that a day that’s supposed to be about celebrating love also serves as a reminder of a pretty glaring economic disparity.

Anyway, collectively, jewelry ($3.5 billion) is shaping up to be this year’s most popular gift in terms of dollars spent, followed closely by dining out ($3.4 billion), flowers ($1.7 billion), clothing ($1.6 billion) and candy ($1.5 billion). We’re also about to drop just over a billion dollars on greeting cards.

This blogger is single this year (woo!), and has no financial responsibility to anyone but himself. Still, we at Styleite are curious to know: Is Valentine’s Day any less romantic if your boyfriend spends more on you than you do on him?

Love Is In The Air This Valentine’s Day, According To NRF [National Retail Foundation]



  • Jessicalynnh

    I love Styleite and I always appreciate the opinions put forward here, but I have to respectfully disagree this time. Look at the top gift items listed above – flowers, dinner, jewelry, candy – those are things that men usually buy for women. I think my boyfriend would be a little weirded out if I showed up on his doorstep with a bouquet of flowers and some man-jewelry. The disparity in spending on Valentines day seems to me more cultural than financial. Maybe it’s that Valentines day in America has shaped up to be more like a “wife/girlfriend appreciation day” for a lot of couples. Or maybe women are giving men something that they don’t have to buy in a store – like sexy lingerie under their dinner dress and a night of great sex. Whatever it is, it seems like there’s much more to this picture than how much money is in each gender’s pocket.

  • Lorinfinney

    i see we buy jewelry food and chocolate and if we impress you enough we get to see your latest hot lingerie and maybe get some sex too , why i feel soo special…no wonder charlie sheen just says not and goes and gets a hooker

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